Love my friends.....

This is a non-cupcake related post. One of my dear friends is going through the toughest thing right now, her marriage is breaking apart. In a situation like hers, I can honestly say I have been there. My marriage was not broken apart, but the reason hers is, I had the same thing, but we made it through. It is sad because she is honestly the best wife ever, and I mean this. I literally used to fuss at her and tell her to be a smidge more aggressive towards her husband and not to let hm do what he wanted. She has been divorced already and didn't want this one to end up the same, which I understand, but you still have to make boundaries. There is nothing that I want more than for her to be happy, but a healthy happy. Of course she wanted to fold and go back, but then she realized that eventhough her heart hurts, it's the best thing to do for her and her children right now. She has no job, and everything is in her name, so of course you can imagine how stressed she is. Right now it is 1:01am here and she is here and he rkids are asleep with my kids and I am just sitting here, just being here for her. I cooked her dinner and wore the kids out so she could go home and try and deal, but they decided to stay here. No problem, don't want her alone right now. The worst part is, I knew her husband before they even met, and I loathe him. Funny how things work like that, love her, hate him.  :( Just please keep her in your thoughts and prayers (if you pray). Thank you! Kristin